Its ironic how one day you think you have it all good, but in any given moment it all can be dramatically dropped and all of a sudden your placed in this hell hole with people judging you for everything you stand for ;/ personally I'm a person that reacts very fast to everything. I hate when people are judged for no reason, in families its truly very hard for every family member to be at peace, because we are definitely are different and when a certain person can't control their actions..... Do you think its OK for family members to lay all off their anger at you ?????
Theirs days when i cant even come home because the screaming and cursing in my house is horrible and i HATE fights!! My sister which let me quote " is older than me by 2 years" is one of the most immatures people i know but she can be a good sister but she can also but the worst person i know the only way she knows how to talk is by screaming... at times of despair i seriously encourage just telling yourself its a moment and it will go away. Just breathe and take it step by step , when something hurts you don't let it take power over you we must learn to overcome and be better. Take everything that's negative to you and in someway let their at least be one good side from it, it will make you be more mature and take life in a different way, you not only know how to handle things better but to show that your a grown person. Should parents or any family member let their frustrations out on you ?
would most people accept family counseling?
Theirs days when i cant even come home because the screaming and cursing in my house is horrible and i HATE fights!! My sister which let me quote " is older than me by 2 years" is one of the most immatures people i know but she can be a good sister but she can also but the worst person i know the only way she knows how to talk is by screaming... at times of despair i seriously encourage just telling yourself its a moment and it will go away. Just breathe and take it step by step , when something hurts you don't let it take power over you we must learn to overcome and be better. Take everything that's negative to you and in someway let their at least be one good side from it, it will make you be more mature and take life in a different way, you not only know how to handle things better but to show that your a grown person. Should parents or any family member let their frustrations out on you ?
would most people accept family counseling?
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I totally agree with you because my sister is the same way but she's 3 years older than me lol (which doesn't make a difference) but we fight each and every single day for stupid reasons which i don't get but whatever. She is a good sister to me because we always go everywhere together and we have our up's and down's. The truth is, our relationship as sisters wouldn't be any fun if we didn't fight.. lol. Like you said just take a deep breath if something frustrates you especially when someone is yelling and cursing at you for no reason.
ReplyDeleteYea, I agree. This is a good point, some times when my dad is angry at something that happened at his job or in the house he gets this really bad vibe. Then he just starts being mean for the stupidest reason, me and my mom just try to avoid him when he is like that.
ReplyDeleteWow that sucks I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Yeah I definitely think your family could learn a few things from you and possibly a shrink but if they don't want to listen then I guess there is nothing you can do right?
ReplyDeleteDamn...hmm what can I say? It happens kid. Everything you go through makes you who you are. You can turn this negative to a positive like me =P you just gotta find a way. You gotta find your release and channel everything into it and make something beautiful. When things get bad you just get out and forget about it. You probably know all of this though.
ReplyDeleteTo answer your questions you know what's right and people shouldn't take thier anger out on others. People need to learn to control thier emotions instead of letting emotions control them.
You know how many times my mom dragged me to counseling. It is so annoying. I don't know how anybody in their right mind would want to sit their and listent to people's problems all day long. When I was little their was always fighting in my house. But now that my dad doesn't live with us anymore, my mom has no body to fight with so she tries to fight with me or my brothers. I don't think it's fair when parents take their stress out on their kids. Kids are only allowed to take their stress out on parents because it's the parents job to help them with it not send them to someone else to help them with it.
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