Monday, January 26, 2009

family with personal issues


Its ironic how one day you think you have it all good, but in any given moment it all can be dramatically dropped and all of a sudden your placed in this hell hole with people judging you for everything you stand for ;/ personally I'm a person that reacts very fast to everything. I hate when people are judged for no reason, in families its truly very hard for every family member to be at peace, because we are definitely are different and when a certain person can't control their actions..... Do you think its OK for family members to lay all off their anger at you ?????
Theirs days when i cant even come home because the screaming and cursing in my house is horrible and i HATE fights!! My sister which let me quote " is older than me by 2 years" is one of the most immatures people i know but she can be a good sister but she can also but the worst person i know the only way she knows how to talk is by screaming... at times of despair i seriously encourage just telling yourself its a moment and it will go away. Just breathe and take it step by step , when something hurts you don't let it take power over you we must learn to overcome and be better. Take everything that's negative to you and in someway let their at least be one good side from it, it will make you be more mature and take life in a different way, you not only know how to handle things better but to show that your a grown person. Should parents or any family member let their frustrations out on you ?
would most people accept family counseling?